Thoughts: People around us

Having people around us (family. friends, colleagues, etc) brings constant comparison in our mind or out in the open. You will compare yourself to others, whatever it might be. You cannot escape comparing or being compared to by other people.

There’s no solution for comparing our lives to others. The grass is always greener on the other side. That’s how human beings are made of. We are vulnerable and always looking up instead of looking down, because that’s our instinct: to search for the best and to be the best or to beat the best.

The best way to deal with it is to adjust. Once your instinct try to compare your own self with others, look at it also in another dimension. Learn from the situation and deduce which particular thing exists in our life, needs adjustment. Your eating habit, work ethics, way of dressing, way of communication, driving skills, and so forth. The rule of this comparing game is simple: NEVER lose your self, NEVER lose your own identity.

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